Showing posts with label friend. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friend. Show all posts

Saturday, June 11, 2011

My Brazilian Amigo: Couchsurfing Gone Right

Because Sweden is so well recognized within the international community thanks to H&M and Ikea, it only felt natural to add it to my list. Arriving well into a Saturday night, the streets were buzzing with energy and the entire city seemed to spot an intoxicated haze. Weaving between out of control taxis and staggering drunks, I found a nook along the outside wall of the rail station and waited patiently for my couchsurfing host.

Henrique, a Brazilian born optimist and Swedish loving meatball eater, was exactly what my Sverge experience needed. His kind demeanor was decipherable through his hazelnut eyes from the moment I saw him and his ear to ear grin reminded me of a benevolence I'd long since forgotten. Spending time with Henrique was so natural and soon after introductions we were talking like two old friends. His quirky sense of humor often left me in knots and occasionally a little dumbfounded. We talked openly about our pasts, our presents, and our hopes for the future. But what I liked most about Henrique was how he described the world through his own eyes. He broke down everyday literal interactions and found a hidden and deeper meaning. He was non judge-mental and seemed to have a cool and collected way of making sense of our crazy world.

I believe that people are in your life for a reason, a season, or a life-time. It might be years before we cross paths again, but I know that when we do, we'll pick up right where we left off, never having missed a beat.

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Who Do You Know?: A Ticket to Hawaii

In this world it’s not what you know but, who. It was this philosophy alone that led me where I sit today on this fine afternoon; alone in the Edmonton International airport waiting for the next flight to Honolulu, Hawaii. Three months ago over a cup of coffee, a former co-worker and now full-time friend offered me a vacation I couldn’t say no to. Having spent much of her life running along the white sandy beaches of Hawaiikai on the island of O’ahu, Monica and her family grew accustomed to the Hawaiian way of life. With her mother living on the Island and her father braving the cold winters back home, Monica got the best of both worlds. But here’s where I come in. Monica offered me room and board in one of the sunniest places in the world for 3 full weeks for less than what my rent was back home. Now ask yourself friend, what would you have said?